Looking Again By Jerald Balasingh Reminds Us To Seek Understanding, Not Quick Judgements

On The Table Read Magazine, “the best arts and entertainment magazine UK“, in Looking Again, Jerald Balasingh presents a collection of thoughtful accounts that reveal how quickly first impressions can lead to misunderstanding. He shows how perceptions often form from only part of the story, and how genuine understanding comes from humility and the willingness to look a little deeper.

Looking Again

“Don’t judge a book by its cover” is a phrase repeated so often that it loses its force. Yet misunderstandings about people, shaped by instinctive reactions and first impressions, continue to influence how they are seen, spoken about, and treated. These quick conclusions solidify into bias, even when only a fraction of someone’s story is known. Pause. Look twice. Nothing is ever only what it first appears to be. What appears to be seven separate reflections quietly and without ever announcing, it becomes something deeper for the reader willing to turn back a few pages and connect the invisible threads

Looking Again, by author Jerald Balasingh, challenges the assumptions and conclusions people form at first glance. Through a collection of philosophical narratives, the book encourages readers to approach initial encounters with openness rather than certainty. Each story reveals how every situation contains unseen layers and alternative perspectives that can shift understanding entirely, inviting a more thoughtful and compassionate way of seeing others.

Structured around seven core human concepts: Kindness, Happiness, Greatness, Strength, Love, Madness, and Meaningfulness, the work challenges the instinct to form snap judgements. It suggests that perception is always incomplete, shaped by limited experience and personal bias. At its heart, it proposes that wisdom lies not in certainty but in humility, recognising that life is ambiguous, and that learning to rest within that ambiguity allows for deeper understanding.

THE SEVEN NARRATIVES

KINDNESS
A group of passengers intervene to ‘rescue’ a boy from an adult in pursuit, only to later discover the situation was misinterpreted. The narrative demonstrates that kindness, without full understanding, can lead to misguided action — and that true kindness requires humility rather than assumption.

GREATNESS
A conversation between generations highlights how what is considered remarkable in one era becomes ordinary in the next. This reflection suggests that greatness is fleeting, while the value of being present and connected endures.

HAPPINESS
A found £20 note brings delight to a family with few resources, illustrating how happiness is often rooted in gratitude and shared moments rather than wealth or abundance.

STRENGTH / WEAKNESS
A sloth survives a predator not through speed or power, but through stillness. The story reveals that strength is contextual, and that what may appear weak can, in its own environment, sustain life and endurance.

LOVE
A mathematician observes expressions of affection and comes to understand that love is not passive; it requires continuous intention and time — expressed in the formula Love = Intention × Time.

MADNESS
A mother’s desperate prayer for her struggling son parallels the emotional pleas of the psychiatric patients she treats. The narrative questions where society chooses to draw the line between faith and ‘madness’, suggesting that the difference often lies in perception rather than reality.

MEANINGFULNESS
A lioness finds purpose in feeding her cubs, while the orphaned prey experiences loss. The story suggests that meaning is not inherent in events themselves but is created through individual experience and perspective. ever only what it first appears to be.

Jerald Balasingh

I wrote this book because we often meet people through our assumptions, not their reality. A quick judgement can distance us from someone who might have been a friend, an ally, or a mirror to our own humanity. When we decide too quickly, we don’t just misunderstand others; we also lose the chance to understand ourselves. I want readers to pause, even briefly, before drawing conclusions. That one pause can change what we see.

When we allow ourselves to look again, we aren’t simply reconsidering others; we are softening something within ourselves. We begin to move through the world with a little more grace, patience, and humanity. The world does not need more certainty; it needs more understanding. And understanding always begins with the willingness to see differently.

-Jerald Balasingh

Jerald Balasingh grew up in the lively streets of Chennai, India, where constant movement and diverse voices taught him to observe quietly and reflect deeply amid noise and haste. Later, he settled in Wales, where the contrast of open space and quiet landscapes encouraged introspection and clarity of thought. Shaped by both environments, one vibrant and restless, the other calm and contemplative, his writing blends curiosity, humility, and thoughtful observation. Drawing from these dual influences, he encourages readers to look beyond first impressions and engage with life through a more patient, open, and compassionate lens.

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